FixedIt: love does not make you violently abuse women

The Sunshine Coast Daily reported that Dean Middlebrook pleaded guilty to more than a dozen domestic violence charges including punching, kicking, choking her with water from a hose, breaching AVOs.

Middlebrook might be claiming that love made him do it but that doesn’t mean the court or the media has to accept and perpetuate the excuses a violent offender made for his choice to be violent.

Love does not make anyone violent. It is not an excuse or a justification for violence. Only one thing causes violence and that is the perpetrators choice to be violent.

FixedIt is an ongoing project to push back against the media’s constant erasure of violent men and blaming of innocent victims. If you would like to help fund it – even $5 a month makes a big difference – please consider becoming a Patron


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